The 'Sunshine' of Llandudno

When we first met Paul

Before Paul found his Shared Lives home with Amanda and Paul, he faced challenges with anxiety, looking after his health, and finding a sense of belonging. He didn’t go out much and didn’t share his full self with many people. 

Becoming a Shared Lives family

Paul took a short break from his usual care arrangements, usin our PSS Shared Lives: Short Breaks service. He signed up for a short stay with PSS Shared Lives North Wales carers, Amanda and Paul. 

From the first day he spent with them, Paul knew he’d found everything he needed to thrive.

Arrangements were made for Paul to stay a bit longer, and soon after, they became a Shared Lives family as a full-time, live-in arrangement. 

 A sense of purpose

PSS Shared Lives carers Amanda and Paul also run a craft shop on Queen's Road in Llandudno. Paul started going along to the shop with Amanda and Paul, doing a few jobs here and there to help out. It was then that he discovered a passion for giving acts of service. 

Paul explains: ‘I started going to the shop with Amanda and realised I really liked it there and I was doing the cleaning and that. I painted the shop the other day, and met other people as well’.  

Since then, Paul has been getting involved with the shops along Queens Road, helping with everything from painting the front to keeping the pavement looking neat and tidy.  

This isn’t just a bit of handy work here and there for Paul, though. He tells us that doing these odd jobs around the community gives him the sense of purpose and fulfilment he’s always wanted to get out of life. He’s taking pride in the place he’s called home for the last three years. Paul said: ‘This row of shops is my second home’. 

Sunshine on a rainy day

The team at Scent With Love on Queen's Road are head-over-heels for Paul who, just like the rest of the local business owners, refer to him as ‘Sunshine’. 

He helps out with things like washing their van but he’s also there at 12 o’clock every day to share his lunch with them. He even joins them on trips to deliver flowers to weddings. One team member said: ‘We all call him Sunshine because he makes you smile every day’. 

The owner of antiques shop, The Treasure Chest, said: ‘He’s a good lad, Sunshine. He’s part of the community.’  

The bond between Paul and the local businesses runs deep. To celebrate his 50th birthday, they came together to throw him a surprise party at Coffee V café, complete with a disco and football-themed birthday cake! For someone who’s experienced a lack of support at times in his life, the gesture was overwhelming.  

He said: ‘I couldn’t believe all these people were here for me.’ 

We think the value of Shared Lives can be summed up in Paul’s simple statement, ‘They love me, and I love them.’